Do you want people to enjoy your company ?, Do you want to hang around with awesome people? well, why wouldn’t you, here are 5 useful tips that can make you a superstar in your social circle and tell you how to make new friends.
Tip no. 1 – Take interest in other people
According to a research personal pronoun, “I” was used 3900 times in 500 phone calls. What does it mean?. It means that we are always interested in ourselves we don’t listen to the other person, this can be a great turn off for the person talking to you. People love a person who listens to them take interest in them. Remember the 80-20 rule listen 80% talk 20 %. Always remember:
“It is the individual who is not interested in his fellow men who has the greatest difficulties in life and provides the greatest injury to others. It is from among such individuals that all human failures spring.”
Tip no. 2 – Flooding Smile.
Dogs are one of the most adorable creatures on this planet, it is because when they see you they become so happy, they are very glad to see us.It happened in the United States a rich lady threw a lavish party she did everything from decorating the hall to wearing a pearl necklace but she forgot an important thing her face, well not the makeup! it was done properly. She was having an arrogant look on her face she was not smiling at the guests. She should have known:
“Beauty is power; a smile is its sword.”
Tip no. 3 – Remember Names.
Always remember a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language. Former American president Barrack Obama always called his colleagues by their names, many other influential personalities do this so next time whenever you meet a new person ask his name and remember.
Tip no. 4 – Talk in terms of the other person’s interests.
Ask the other person what they do, what they like and then talk about their field of interest. Otherwise, the conversation won’t last long. For this, you need to read about various fields in short read books.
Tip no. 5 – Make the other person feel important
Whenever you wear that new outfit of yours don’t you want your friends to compliment it, everyone want’s it so the next interesting person you meet try to give him honest compliments. Don’t fake it there is a difference between buttering and complimenting. So:
“Give genuine and honest compliments”
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